The other night while I was on twitter I saw one of my friends going in on some chick named KatStacks. Out of nowhere I saw people retweeting what he was saying about her and I'm seeing members from YM talking about her and so much more. So I went to her blog to see what the deal was and why she seemed to be a trending topic. As I scrolled down and looked at her page it was filled with videos and and stories glorifying the fact that she has run through half the music industry. As a female I am appalled and embarrassed because it is females like her and many others amongst us who are the reason we get NO respect from some of these males and it has really got to STOP and to make it stop it starts with us.
Every since my birthday I've been looking at so many things completely different than I did before...this is one of them. I am not saying that I'm perfect in any shape or fashion. But I am learning that it's not cool for women and young ladies to carry themselves so loose like they do! It is NOT cute to play the mistress roll or the groupie roll. And it's definitely NOT cute to broadcast it! It's extremely classless and it makes the females who aren't on that look bad as well because men and young little boys have it in their mind that they can treat us any type of way they want to which isn't right. I understand that some people have issues deep within and some have insecurity issues, but you need to go get some help for it because this sh*t needs to be dead. We have go to stop calling each other hoes and sluts and degrading each other as women. We let these males come in between us and let them rip us apart and we have got to be stronger than that. Men wouldn't be dogs if we didn't let them... and that's something we all need to learn... We have to fix the way we move as a whole. Another thing that disturbs me is the fact that some of us feel as if we can be dogs right along with these males. That thought needs to be removed from women's minds that believe it. We can't do what they do point blank.
Basically, my whole point of this post is to say that the inappropriate, degrading, classless female activity needs to be dead! We as women need to help each other out. We can not continue this trend. Every time I look up it has gotten worse. Time to make some changes and grow up! Our ancestors died for us to have equal opportunities and it's a slap in the face. People in our past have worked hard to get where we are now and it's like nobody cares...
I'm just saying
- Asha Hujayja Habib
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